From Marriage Challenges To Wins
- theblissfulrelatio
- Feb 13, 2024
- 1 min read
Updated: Jul 15, 2024
What Are You Winning Today?

Before I found the 6 Intimacy Skills, I complained a lot about my relationship with my husband. It made me a very grumpy woman and definitely not attractive at all. I did not know what wins were. After I joined the Ridiculously Happy Wives (RHW) community, I was encouraged to share my wins and celebrate them with other women in the community. It was a game changer for me. I started to look for wins in my life instead of focusing on what I was not happy about. That grumpiness in me slowly disappeared and I became happier and more optimistic.
In our RHW community, wins are the successes we have when we embrace the Skills in our lives and the positive impact the skills have brought about. It can be as simple as something I am grateful for or something special that I have done for myself.
Of course, there are still ups and downs in life. But one major shift that I experience is that even in the midst of tough and challenging times in my marriage, I would ask myself what wins can I find in these challenges. That totally shifts my focus and I even feel grateful towards these challenges; because without them, I would not be able to find my wins!
So, what are you winning today?
P.S. If you'd like to find out more about the RHW community, click here.



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