Fighting for Us: Discovering Our Vision as a Couple

In the past, we easily lost sight of our vision in the midst of the daily grind. I cared more about what I thought was best for the family and the children. I didn’t get to see or understand what he actually cared about. All I saw was a man who buried himself into work hoping to achieve success and recognition. “How selfish! All he cared about was him and his success! How about us?” I thought to myself. I felt so lonely, unloved, stuck and angry. On the other hand, he felt exhausted, unappreciated and depressed. We were two walking time bombs ready to explode. What a perfect match in hell!

I clearly remembered that fateful day when we had a meltdown. He was in a really bad mood and had said something hurtful. I could recall the surge of rage within me. I literally felt that my pupils dilated and my cheeks were hot. I told myself, if he’s going to do this again, I would retaliate. I wouldn’t hold back.

Exactly, what were we as a couple fighting for? I couldn’t remember a bit except those upsetting and disturbing emotions and reactions. But what I do remember is that we had stopped fighting for US! Yes, for US as a couple and as a family. We have stopped fighting for that vision and life continued to fall apart. 

With the 6 Intimacy Skills and coaching, I finally get to see what my vision is and what is actually worth fighting for. How about you? What are you fighting for?

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